Dore ibimenyetso bizakwereka ko umukobwa afite irari ry’ubusambanyi

Abasore benshi barambiwe gusa kwegera abagore buri gihe no kwangwa inshuro nyinshi. Nubwo impamvu zituma guhora kwangwa zishobora kuba nyinshi, amarangamutima ajyanye nayo ntabwo ari amayobera. Hamwe no kwangwa, hazamo kumva ushidikanya, hamwe no kutizera no kwihesha agaciro. Ku muntu wigeze kwangwa inshuro nyinshi, byagenda bite turamutse tubabwiye ko hashobora kuba harigihe umugore yashakaga kukwegera, ariko ntushobora gufata ibimenyetso? Yumiwe? Nibyo, hari amahirwe ibi bishobora kuba rimwe na rimwe ariko wabuze amahirwe. Ariko, ntukeneye guhangayika ukundi. Hano reba ibimenyetso umugore ashaka kukwegera.

1.Akina imikino yamaso

Bumwe mu butumire bukunze gutumirwa nabwo ni bumwe mu buryo bworoshye: azakoresha amaso ye. Guhuza amaso birakomeye bidasanzwe kandi byimbitse. Ntidukunze guhuza amaso akomeye nabantu tudakunda. Mubyukuri, kwirinda nkana guhuza amaso ni bumwe muburyo abagabo n’abagore bagerageza kwirinda kwishora mubiganiro nabandi bantu

2.Umubiri we urabyivugira

Abagabo n’abagore bakunda kugira ibyo bahindura ku mvugo yabo iyo babonye umuntu bakunze. Ingero zikunze kugaragara hamwe nabagore zirimo guhindura bike kumyambarire ye numusatsi, kugirango yigaragaze neza. Ibi nibimenyetso byerekana ko ashobora kugushimisha.

3.Akubwira ibintu kuri wowe gusa cyangwa bisa nkaho bikureba

Ashobora kubaza ikibazo rusange bikureba. Ikintu kijyanye nibyo ukunda nibyo wanga, cyangwa ikintu azi uzagusubiza. Birashoboka ko arimo akubaza, cyangwa ashobora kuba avuga kukintu ushimishijwe neza kugirango ubone kumwitaho.

4.Atangira ku kwiyegereza

Niba umugore ashaka ko umwiyegereza, arashobora rwose kwimuka kugirango akwegere. Ashobora gutembera kuruhande rwawe, akagira itsinda ryinshuti ye ahindura ameza, akabyina hafi yawe cyangwa mumurongo wawe wo kureba, cyangwa agafata umwanya wenyine kugirango ubone ko afunguye kuvugwa.

5.Ashaka aho mugomba guhurira bitunguranye

Ingero zifatika zukuri muribi zirimo: Ujya mukabari, kandi mu buryo butunguranye arahari iruhande rwawe utumiza byeri. Urasohoka mu bwiherero, kandi aragenda. Werekeje ku rubyiniro, kandi na we arabikora! Mugihe ibi bishobora kuba ari impanuka, witondere niba hari ibindi bimenyetso byerekana ikindi kintu.

‘

share.